<p><font color="#000080" size="4" face="楷体_GB2312"> <font size="5">我很矛盾，我很痛苦，我很无力，我很别扭……</font></font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 大家从外表上看都说我是个没心没肺的乐天派。一来</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">我是天生乐观；</font><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">二来我是苦中作乐，自得其乐并且乐在其中，</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">虽然生活中并没有什么值得让我可乐的，但是生活还是要</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">继续所以必须乐观！</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 每天的工作都是向学生传递正能量，传递正能量去温暖</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">他们，</font><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">那么自己本身就应该是充满正能量和阳光的人才能</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">容易做到，但是坎坷的情感经历让我伤痕累累遍体鳞伤，</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">我得到的几乎都是负能量。按照平衡和能量守恒的原理，</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">我也应该向外界发泄负能量才能让自己平衡，但是我要</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">传递的却是正能量，这样一来我消耗的能量已经让我自己</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">变成了负数！</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 去温暖别人，却没有人来温暖我！父母老了需要我的</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">温暖；后辈们还小也需要我的温暖；学生们是我的工作</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">对象同样需要得到我的温暖。但是，我没有从别人那里</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">得到温暖，得到的只是伤害和索取……外面是三伏酷暑，</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">我的心却是拔凉拔凉滴；外面是三九严寒，我的心更是</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">冷似冰窖……所以，每次上完课我都一种虚脱无力感，</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">好想哭……因为我好矛盾，我想给，但是我太无力太苍白，</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">弱小的身躯没有强大的内心能量，心有余而爱无力……</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">这种不平衡的得到与付出，让我心力交瘁；没有双休日</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">的工作让我身心疲惫，精力透支……好累……好想哭……</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"></font> </p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 我真的不知道那些能给别人正能量和温暖的人，他们</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">是怎样的一个人？尤其一生提倡并践行博爱精神的孙中山</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">先生，那么瘦小的身躯怎么会充满那么巨大的能量？他们</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">的能量从何而来？那些阳光温暖充满正能量的男人和优秀</font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">的精英男人又到哪里去找呢？</font></p><pre><font color="#000080" face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="5"><font color="#ff0000">撑着红雨伞，独自彷徨在漫长、漫长又寂寥的雨夜，</font></font></font></pre><pre><font color="#ff0000" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">我希望逢着一个阳光一样的带着温暖的男子。</font></pre><pre><font color="#ff0000" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">他是有阳光一样的颜色，阳光一样的味道，阳光一样的热情。</font></pre><pre><font color="#ff0000" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">他善良真诚、身心健康；他有爱心、事业心、责任心；</font></pre><pre><font color="#ff0000" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">他低调、洒脱、有内涵。</font></pre>
<p><font color="#ff0000" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 撑着红雨伞，独自彷徨在漫长、漫长又寂寥的雨夜，</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff0000" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"></font> </p>
<p><font color="#ff0000" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 我希望飘过一个阳光一样的带着温暖的男子——我在武昌等你……</font></p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2014-11-24 0:12:55编辑过]
<p><font color="#0000ff" size="4">在祥和温和的秋雨夜里，</font></p>
<p><font color="#0000ff" size="4">不止一次的听见到了那一刻的痛苦的嘶叫：</font></p>
<p><font color="#0000ff" size="4">稚拙挣钱的欲望成全了逍遥贪欲无耻的骗子。</font></p>
<p><font color="#0000ff" size="4">就因为稚嫩美好期许的吸引，他再次的来了，穿过雾幔。</font></p>
<p><font color="#0000ff" size="4">殷勤的笑容使人温暖，</font></p>
<p><font color="#0000ff" size="4">在阳光和爱的包裹下，你会不会又一次的掬起了一汪浊辉。</font></p> <p><font color="#000000" size="4">心有戚戚焉……</font></p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4"></font> </p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4">Everything will be OK in the end. If it's not OK, then it's not the end.</font></p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4"></font> </p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4">努力开心点吧。</font></p> <span style="font-size: large;">唉，灯光，你回帖了呀。</span><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br/></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">俺原本觉得这种事不好说什么，因为许多事只能自己面对，他人往往“难以安慰”——心里不痛快，写出来也是宣泄一下吧。</span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br/></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">但，若是直言一句，我可能会这么说：</span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br/></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">不要以为，不要指望这世上会有一个人，尤其是男人（为什么要寄望于另一个性别来解决问题呢；想想那也是一个个同样"跋涉在人生路上"的个体）能够，或前来解决“你”目前的痛苦、难处及各种问题。残酷的说，多半不会有这么一个人（这世界不是童话，没有那种专为谁设定的“另一半”；但的确有认识、了解、磨合）——而并不都是遇不遇得上，找不找得到的问题。</span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br/></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">自己解决不了的问题，别人多半也解决不了。自己消化不了的痛苦，别人也多半消化不了。这可能是真的，就是事实。</span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br/></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">再另外，就是，自身内心太过缺失，急于向外需求时特别容易受骗或跌倒。所以这时重要的应该是，自己能够“把自己哄好”，的确，尽量让自己开心点，“倒刺”充实点。</span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br/></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">再再更重要的是，当然还是祝福Lz遇上希望找到的人，获得想要的那种幸福。</span></div> <p><font color="#000000" size="4">小倩：你比我勇敢。我本来说了与你差不多的话，但犹豫之后，就删除了，改成了泛泛的安慰。唉，我发觉自己现在比以前“圆熟”了。不过，这只是对女人吧。我越来越“惧怕”女人（除了你），很怕自己无意中就“口无遮拦”地伤害了女人。</font></p> <span style="font-size: large;">你“圆熟”点未必不好。我想起以前你的超级"直言不讳"，忽然有点想笑。</span><div><span style="font-size: large;"><br/></span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">也许还是女人更容易理解、感受女人，也是出于内心柔软，所以言谈更容易忐忑了。</span></div> 回梦话大王：好有诗意！ <div class="quote"><b>以下是引用<i>灯光</i>在2014-11-24 21:44:00的发言：</b><br/>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4">心有戚戚焉……</font></p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4"></font> </p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4">Everything will be OK in the end. If it's not OK, then it's not the end.</font></p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4"></font> </p>
<p><font color="#000000" size="4">努力开心点吧。</font></p></div>
<p><font color="#ff0000" size="4">路网两大赫赫有名的才女纷至沓来，让我受宠若惊啊！</font></p>
<p><font size="4">灯光老师也心有戚戚焉，真是荣幸之至啊！看来相同的性别和职业比较容易引起共鸣哦，嘿嘿</font></p>
<p><font size="4">我会听灯光老师的话，努力开心的！</font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" lang="EN-US"><font color="#000000" size="5">After all, tomorrow is another day!</font></span></p> <div class="quote"><b>以下是引用<i>小倩</i>在2014-11-24 22:13:00的发言：</b><br/><span style="FONT-SIZE: large">唉，灯光，你回帖了呀。</span>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large"><br/></span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large">俺原本觉得这种事不好说什么，因为许多事只能自己面对，他人往往“难以安慰”——心里不痛快，写出来也是宣泄一下吧。</span></div></div><font size="5">报告小倩：上面蓝色字体是写出来宣泄一下的。不过后面的红色字体我已经把他们写成征婚帖宣传出去了，呵呵</font> <div class="quote"><b>以下是引用<i>小倩</i>在2014-11-24 22:13:00的发言：</b><br/>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large"><br/></span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large">但，若是直言一句，我可能会这么说：</span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large"><br/></span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large">不要以为，不要指望这世上会有一个人，尤其是男人（为什么要寄望于另一个性别来解决问题呢；想想那也是一个个同样"跋涉在人生路上"的个体）能够，或前来解决“你”目前的痛苦、难处及各种问题。残酷的说，多半不会有这么一个人（这世界不是童话，没有那种专为谁设定的“另一半”；但的确有认识、了解、磨合）——而并不都是遇不遇得上，找不找得到的问题。</span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large"><br/></span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large">自己解决不了的问题，别人多半也解决不了。自己消化不了的痛苦，别人也多半消化不了。这可能是真的，就是事实。</span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large"><br/></span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large">再另外，就是，自身内心太过缺失，急于向外需求时特别容易受骗或跌倒。所以这时重要的应该是，自己能够“把自己哄好”，的确，尽量让自己开心点，“倒刺”充实点。</span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large"><br/></span></div>
<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: large">再再更重要的是，当然还是祝福Lz遇上希望找到的人，获得想要的那种幸福。</span></div></div>
<p><font size="5">哎呀，说得太好了，简直说到我心坎里去了！只能说：I can't agree with you any more！</font></p>
<p><font size="5">才女小倩如此精辟的开点和解惑，让我的回复是决绝不敢怠慢滴！</font></p>
<p><font size="5">下面我要回复的估计有点多，也想借此与小倩有更多地交流。还希望小倩老师能耐心审阅，给予雅正。</font></p> <p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"> <font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">在这样一个男权社会，男性想混好都不易，更何况女性想要在这个罅隙中求生存！都说女人干得好不如嫁得好，现实生活中，许多能力远远不如自己的女人靠亲爹、靠干爹、靠各种爹、靠老公的女人大有人在。有时候会羡慕人家的好福气、好运气；嫉妒她们凭什么就能活得那么轻松自在？！继而只能自恨弗如！</font></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"></font></span> </p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 因为一路走来我始终是一个人在战斗，一个人在打拼，才有了现在的立足。我可以坦荡荡地拍着胸脯说：我走到今天这一步，没有靠过任何一个男人！没有得到过任何一个男人的帮助！但这其中的艰辛与无奈又有谁能知晓？我何尝不想有人能为我遮风挡雨，能为我分忧解愁，能对我嘘寒问暖！</font></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"></font></span> </p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="5"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"> <font size="5"><font color="#000080" face="楷体_GB2312">我能活到现在，完全靠的是革命的乐观主义精神、对生活的热情、对未来的希望和对自己永不放弃的自我要求。当然，每个人活在这个世上都不容易，男人女人皆是。所以，我并不奢求别人的付出，而是两个</font></font></span></font></font></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="5"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font color="#000080" size="5"></font></span></font></font></span> </p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font size="5"><font color="#000080"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font size="4">“</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><font size="4">跋涉在人生路上的</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font size="4">个体”</font><font size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">可以在一起相互取暖、相互依偎、共同陪伴着对方，</font></span></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"><font size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">笑看沧海桑田风云变幻、分享阳光雨露雾霭虹霓、分担风雨雷电霹雳黑夜……</font></span></font></font></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"></span></font></span> </p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 我只是一只毛毛虫，一直都在寻找属于自己的那份小小的幸福。如果可以的话，情愿不要绚烂的绽放，只要平淡的单纯。那种两只蝴蝶飞过花丛，一起回忆它们漫长的毛虫岁月才是我眼中平淡的幸福。</font></span></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"><br/></span></span></p> <p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"> <font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">柏杨在《养育之恩》里写道：“女人是上帝特别规定的传种动物，你不传种，你便要付出代价——</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">那是中年时心灵上的寂寞，和年老时心灵上的空虚，任何东西都不能代替。”可是我现在就深刻品尝体会到了孤独寂寞冷的滋味了——确实不怎么好受！甚至还不时飘过一丝恐惧感……</font></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"></font></span> </p>
<p><font size="5"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font color="#000080"> <font size="5">夜晚，听着音乐却有一些说不清道不明的感怀涌上心头。剪不断，理还乱。心灵急需找到一个纯粹、纯净，能得到慰藉和安放的去处……</font></font></font></span></font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"></span></font> </p>
<p><font color="#000080"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="5"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"> <font size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">想到</font></span></font></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><font size="5" face="楷体_GB2312">乱世才女张爱玲冷寂凄凉客死异乡；没有荷西的三毛在答应琼瑶不会自杀后终了还是追随荷西而去<span lang="EN-US">……</span>可悲可叹，景靠人赏，人靠景托，若无人赏，春花空寂寂。若无景托，美人枯断肠。虽然也有不因无人不芳自我欣赏的花儿，但那始终是种孤寂无奈的美，别让她们在等待中老去枯萎……</font></span></font></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"></font></span> </p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 人类要顺应自然法则：阴阳者，天地之道也。阴阳平衡乃万物的游戏规则，阴阳之间相互依存、相互制约。尤其是属阴的女性更需要情感的寄托与呵护。我想聪明美丽如小倩，如果有一个知你懂你、满眼充满爱意的男子守护在你身旁，你对他也有好感，就即使条件不如你，你也愿意妥协和他在一起的吧，呵呵（揣测而已别见怪哦）</font></span></p><br/>
<p><font size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> <font color="#000080">有一首歌叫《孤独的人是可耻的》虽然歌名有点夸张了，但是身心孤独的人总是痛苦的！家人的不停催促，随着自己年华一年年的逝去，本着严肃慎重的态度，对社会、对方、后代和自己有一个交待的责任使命感，我现在开始真正意识到是结束这段孤单行程的时候了！只想遇一人白首，一个能志同道合、情投意合的人生伴侣共同战斗，相扶相持。愿使岁月静好，现世安稳，如此温暖到老……</font></font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"></font> </p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 但是在追求个人幸福的道路上，我一再跌倒，一再受伤，这条路我走的好辛苦……我曾经体会过被爱和幸福的感觉，我也曾经一度那么接近幸福，离幸福似乎只有一步之遥，但幸福却出乎我的意料地从指缝眼睁睁地看它溜走……</font><br/> <p><font size="5"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <font color="#000080" size="4" face="楷体_GB2312">都说没有嫁不出去的女人，但是现实生活中嫁不出去的女人却越来越多。蓝淋在《迟爱》中这样写道：</font></span></font></font><font size="4"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font color="#000080"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'">我从来都坚信世界上一定有一个人是能让你幸福的，他肯定存在于某个角落里，总有一天必将来到你面前，所有暂时没找到他的人都不必灰心丧气。</span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: ????; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'" lang="EN-US"> </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'">但现在却会开始怀疑，是不是那个人也和我一样，在漫长的寻觅过程中疲惫不堪，终于也不想再前行，只随便在某个地方停了下来。</span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: ????; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'" lang="EN-US"> </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'">人生短短几十年，很可能未必真的就能等到那个人。在找到他之前，就已经老了。也许太过坚持的结果，就是那么孤独着老去，也未可知。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">”</span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: ????; BACKGROUND: white; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'" lang="EN-US"> </span></span></font></font></font></p>
<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: ????; BACKGROUND: white; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'" lang="EN-US"></span></span></font> </p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font color="#000080"><font size="5"><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: ????; BACKGROUND: white; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'" lang="EN-US"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: white; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ????; mso-hansi-font-family: ????; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'"><font color="#000080" size="4">最近接到一个电话，</font></span></span></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><font size="4">自称武汉知名婚介公司的某工作人员有她的理论，说</font></span><font size="4"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">A</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">男找的都是</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">女和</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">C</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">女；</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">男找的也是</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">女和</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">C</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">女；所以剩下来的男女一般来说是</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">A</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">女和</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">C</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">男。说我属于</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">A</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">女应该放低要求接触一下</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">C</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">男，或者放宽某些方面的要求也许还能找到</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">A</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">男。还说我对男人没有信心是心理有问题，首先要到他们公司让他们的心理老师给我辅导心理（当然前提成为他们会员的最低门槛</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">7728</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">元），</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New="New"Roman'; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">balabala</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">……哎，我一个靠自己能力、思想独立自主，内心不指望男人的新时代知识女性啥时候就成了心理有毛病了……我只是小倩说的内心有点缺失罢了，这也是阴阳不平衡造成的。</span></font></font></font></p>
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<p><font color="#000080" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"><font color="#333399"><font color="#000080"> </font>至于小倩说的“把自己哄好”看似简单难度系数还有点大，是个技术活！需要强大的内心和能够调整自身沉浸生活的力度和温暖。只能先尽量做到谦和，温顺且自持的生活，不乱于心，不困于情，不畏将来，不念过去吧。</font></font></p>
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<p><font color="#333399" size="5" face="楷体_GB2312"> 最后谢谢小倩的祝福。希望寻寻觅觅的结果不是场悲剧或是荒唐的闹剧，而是能在“时间无涯的荒野里遇到也在那里”的那个人！有志者，事竟成，破釜沉舟，百二秦关终属楚；苦心人，天不负，卧薪尝胆，三千越甲可吞吴。 自勉之。</font></p><br/>
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