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14.0pt;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体">一、</span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";="" mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">打破内心恐惧，以交朋友的心态与人搭讪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:="" "times="" new="New" roman""="">丽江是个多种文化交融的地方，大家来到丽江主要目的就是休闲、放松，当然也不排除“疗伤”，在丽江，遇见就是缘份，每个人在这一点上都是心灵相通的。所以不要以大城市的心理来审视对方，也不要将自己防备的无懈可击，生怕别人有企图，会伤害你。当你遇到漂亮的单身</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt">MM</span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:="" "times="" new="New" roman""="">，无论在餐馆、旅行、客栈、咖啡馆、酒吧等，你都可以主动搭讪，走出自己的心理圈子。当然你会有很多借口与人搭讪，车到山前必有路，相信每个到丽江的人都有这个能力。初次搭讪的最高成就是获得对方的联系方式或一起外出旅行的机会，这样离成功就不远了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">二、坦诚交流，展现个人魅力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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text-indent:-28.0pt;mso-char-indent-count:-2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"> </span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";="" mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">只要你长得有特点，只要漂亮</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt">MM</span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:
宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">跟你在一起交流，证明对方在寻找你的优点或者是在考验和衡量。这时你要展现自己的魅力与活力。无论是侃侃而谈的口才、惊心动魄的过往经历、还是酒吧的疯狂之举等等。这些都是你的资本。丽江的美丽邂逅不是真正的爱情，所以对方也只是寻求暂时的慰藉。丽江没有真爱，只有风花雪月的谈情说爱。展现魅力的唯一禁忌就是不要庸俗，千万不要谈自己如何如何有钱，自己如何如何有权利，这样往往让你很快掉价。在丽江懂得自由、浪漫、享受生活，才是最大的资本，所以很多主题都不要离开这些。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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text-indent:-28.0pt;mso-char-indent-count:-2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"> </span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";="" mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">一个情场高手，都是内心比较细腻和敏感的人，他们往往都很注重细节，会巧妙的将关心对方融入到细节的生活当中。这一点在丽江也是必不可缺少的。很多失意的漂亮</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt">MM</span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:="" "times="" new="New" roman""="">来到丽江，是为了寻找自己得不到的东西，或者物质或者精神。精神食粮支配着人的意志，意志统领着行为。所以对于你心爱的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt">MM</span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:="" "times="" new="New" roman""="">你要在细节上关心她，哪怕是暂时的，也会得到对方的感动和满足感。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">四、利用契机，成就美丽</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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text-indent:-28.0pt;mso-char-indent-count:-2.0"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"> </span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";="" mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">酒吧是很多人迷恋丽江的原因，丽江酒吧是可以让人遗忘过去，放松自己的好地方。在酒吧，你要与漂亮</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt">MM</span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";mso-hansi-font-family:="" "times="" new="New" roman""="">开开心心喝酒，谈谈浪漫的故事，唱唱疯狂的歌曲，时不时关心一下对方。酒吧喝酒的最高境界是似醉非醉，如果喝的一滩烂泥，可就要后果自负了，哈哈。剩下的事情就是水到渠成了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left:42.0pt;mso-para-margin-left:4.0gd"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:"Times new=" new"="" roman";="" mso-hansi-font-family:"times="" new="New" roman""="">爱在丽江，恋在丽江，梦归丽江，情归丽江，祝所有来丽江的人，梦想成真！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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